I have a love whose name is Johnny, He is dating my best friend Bonnie

The audience members at the annual Poly Living convention – think hippies, retired science teachers, a high quotient of male ponytails – are singing what might be the only song ever written about polyamory.

She lives with her sweetheart Jen,

And Jen's husband whose name is Glenn

It's a lifestyle that has been alternatively misidentified as Swinging, Wife Swapping and Really Greedy.

Now they raise their kids together,

And are happy more than ever

Polyamory isn't about sex, polys tell you. It is about love. It is about loving your primary partner enough to love that they have a new secondary partner, even when their New Relationship Energy with that person leaves you, briefly, out in the cold. It's about loving yourself enough to acknowledge that your needs cannot be met by one loving person. Read More